If a guy only wants to have sex w/you but not any other activities does he really love you?

a guy i know for the past 7 yrs says hes in love with me and thats his favorite thing to do is 'spend time" w/me but we never do anything else and now that i want to not do it with him and i want to start doing other things with him like walking or going to the park he said i dont love him for making him wait. he doesnt want to go with out it past 1 wk and im confused when he says i dont love him. any advice? because hes calling me names like bad words and that im mean and im making him beg because i wont seduce him.