Could a woman ever learn to sympathize with her rapist?

Now I am not talking about the violent scary type of rape that occurs in dark alley ways. I am talking the kind where the woman seduces a man so much by the way she dresses and acts that he has to have her. If she left the poor man alone by dressing modestly and not sexually teasing him none of this would have happened I swear. Isn't a man's regret and guilt punishment enough?